Thursday, May 18, 2006

he's just not that into you

watched oprah this morning and it's about the book written by a man dedicated for women. it's about guys, sex and relationship. well, basically it's an eye opener, a wake up call for girls out there and maybe for some guys too. can't be too harsh and say only men are evil.

actually this episode is a very old one and i've watched it a bit last time. perhaps from almost 2 years ago. i remember nin was the one who watched it that time and she's the one "lecturing" it all to us. well, that time was kinda click with n and her monkey business. oh, i think she talked about it to me again a few months ago in order to talk me into out of something.

there were lots of young women in the studio that questions their confusing relationship with their man. surely the book could help them get a clearer thought about whether they were really into each other or they were there just for the companionship and maybe sex. doubt means don't. no one like to be kept around as a secret or just someone you can look for anytime you need them and put them aside when you don't feel like their company. but the co-author did say so unless they are to be open since the beginning and tell the other person that you just want to get to know them, so it won't create any misunderstanding that leads to hopeless expectation in any of them. maybe it's true that women stick with their men with the hope that one day they'll change eventually, whereas men stay with the hope that their women will stay the same as they are now, pretty, slim and not asking too much. haha..

is it so hard to find a healthy, loving and committed relationship and to have it too these days?

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