is it a crime or a bad thing if i want him to want the same thing i want? or is it as a new friend said that men don't care about small stuffs? so they are just simply ignorant about those things. if yes, then poor those women who expect their men to be more caring and sensitive. as for my case, seems the more i want it the harder i get it. that young fortune teller did once told me about this. instead of chasing it hardly i should just let things loose a bit and it shall come to me. easier said than done. moreover, time plays a role too here.