about a boy

can't believe it's already december again. it's the last month in a year. means new year's just around the corner. another year passed. everytime thinking about this kind of thing is the perfect mood killer.

speaking about things just around the corner reminds me about a friend. it's just recently in the past month that i became friends with a few new people. fun people. for now i just wanna tell about this one guy.

this guy, he's a very sanguine type that's all in him. fun, confident, talkative, loves to be the centre of attention and loud. easy to get close with almost anyone cos he's funny, thou. hm.. how to write this, eh? let's just cut to the chase where i mentioned about things that's just around the corner.

he loves girls. of course, he's a guy. but he's a bit commitment-phobia. not actually phobia but just the type that can't just settle with one beauty. looks like one is never enough for him cos there's always something more interesting in every corner. his standard about girls is quite high, but lucky him cos he got the capacity to be able to attract those girls into smitten with him. all of them whom he's also attracted to. funnily, sometimes each of them, individually, knows about the existence of the other girls around him although they don't know each other. and they don't mind. it's just that for him there's always another beauty around the corner. someone more beautiful than he already got around him. that's why it seems he never stop looking. it's an endless thing.

below are roughly the conversations i has with him and also with some other friends.

"if that's how you do, when will you stop and settle? when can you find someone that's perfect enough for you? when or what is enough?". he just simply said that he won't until he met that someone. "until when? you surely have to set yourself a time limit, considering you're already in your early 30s. and it's not only phisical but also emotional and attitude, etc that you have to consider", and he replied me with something quite, err.. shocking?: "if it's really the time i have to settle, i'll just simply pick the most beautiful one and marry her. and if she's really that pretty, i can forgive the rest"

actually this is his real quote in indo. ada kalimat lagi dan kalo diterjemahin ke inggris gak selucu aslinya, "kalo uda sampe waktunya belom nemu ya gue cap cip cup aja pilih yg paling cakep. beres, kan? yg paling penting fisik karena seumur hidup bakal loe liat tiap hari. yg paling penting tuh liat cewek ada 3 masa: waktu bangun tidur, waktu abis mandi dan waktu full make up. karena itu fisik paling penting. kalo itu ok, i can forgive the rest. asal cakep, mo belagu juga gak apa.

we all burst out laughing when he said that but personally i did that cos i'm speechless to that answer. somehow i think they also have their own thoughts while laughing. i don't know.

hm.. ain't man scary? haha..

seems there's many hearts shattered into pieces scattered here and there caused by him. but you'll never know.